Reasons to delete my facebook account
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I deleted my facebook account,
yeah I deleted it. It was a difficult moment for me but I handled it from my side.
It just seems as a break up after a long relationship, I was on facebook from
2009 and its 2013, 4 year I enjoyed it like
a true man but at starting it was like a gift for me to be in touch with
friends with family members who are away and in other country but suddenly it
seems like a time wasting activity for me .yeah it truly helps sometimes, it
helps in making friendship with all those whom you don’t know personally but
know from their work, it makes world so closer ,on a single click you can
contact to anybody in your network but I found many things that’s hurting my career ,that’s hurting my sleep, that’s hurting my silence, that’s hurting my peace, a
few reason that turned out to be a cause to deactivate my account, a reason
stronger than the bond of friendship, that caused to deactivate my account. There
are various moments happened in my life, that I opened my account for no cause
just to see what happened recently and after working an hour’s I log out without
any constructive work. the moment I passed to see ,is there any message for me
to check the account, is there any notification for me, is there any request
for me, is there any like for me, is there any comment for me.
I was such a fool, I know that These can’t help
me out making any good work ,it is just a game of mark zuckerberg to involve us
in the play as a cost to share our life activities, what turned into him a billionaire
by selling it to the advertisement companies,
I found the reason as I am seeing most of the university’s student visiting it continuously
for a longer hours and destructing their time including me when I was using it,
I chatted unnecessarily to many ones without any talk, I know it’s a technological
era ,you can't live without it, but believe me, after deactivating account I find
it more happy in last few days, the anxiety ,the unnecessarily thinking, the
unwanted comments ,or the unwanted fear that I had, got too much relief from it,
I know you are thinking that how can anybody could be like so much involved
with facebook ,but not only I a majority of youth passing time more on facebook
than any other communication medium, they are losing their touch to read the expression from faces, they
are losing the touch to talk effectively, and they are losing the most of their
real life into virtual world that doesn't exist. Now I am telling you one by
one why to deactivate the account or why to be away from facebook.
Facebook
attached your past with you-The friends or the
people you are living with is your present and the people with whom you was living
is your past, it is the nature which is responsible for gathering people around
you for your survival and each time you pass out with situation and events
,people are changed around ,you learn from them and go forward ,teach other and
go forward but guess what facebook provides you a platform which makes you to
be in touch with those who were sometimes in your life in your past may be you
were just an average person with not more qualities but now you become a best
one after struggling in life ,then the person from your past comes into present and comment or remember
your past that can break or lose your confidence, or there may be a case you do
not want to show something to them but they know it by your profile, there may
be a case you don't want to remember your past but seeing them regularly may
hurt you.
Facebook
wastes your time – when you have mobiles, mail accounts, linkedin accounts, skype accounts why to use facebook, you go to facebook to
contact someone then you see other people too, you start chatting with them,
you see more and you are in to waste your time, then you realize, why you talk
to them, why you updated your status, why she/he is offline, why he/she not
talk to you, and even after logout you are in the facebook.
Facebook
make you unsocial – facebook provides you a platform to chat
the friends who are not with you but are good for you, here starts drama, you
spent time more online and the person from whom you are chatting or talking is
not going to hangout with you in future, maybe even you don’t know him personally,
and the people who are too close with you in real world you don't have time to
chat with them personally, indirectly ,a father knows about his child activity
before on facebook after he tell to him personally, ironically but true in many argument you start telling I have
updated on facebook,why didn't you read it. it makes a person totally unsocial.
Facebook
says only that what you want to show-its true there is no
reality behind the posts you are reading, a person updates only that information
from his life event, which he wants to show, all the profile pictures and cover
photos are just a fake one seems that all person are happy but in true you don't know what is happening with them.
Facebook
provide you unwanted things to show and to see-this
is last but not least, facebook provides you a platform to share things with
your friends but by sharing you are losing your personal information with them,
the things they are also sharing are the ones they are losing to you, you shouldn't have any interest in seeing thousands of their pics neither they have
in yours, but you and they share it, you never called them, neither they but
still you are friends, they never invited you but you care for it.a party pics
disturb you because you were not invited or the pics of some function disturbs,
some status and photos in which you tagged ,you do not want to show to others
but on facebook everything is open,
there is no personally type thing. The data you are entering regularly on facebook,
you don't know when it comes out to be dangerous for you in future.
Finally, I know that
many will not agree by this article but if you don't agree write in comments so
that I can know your opinion also, if you are agree write why you agree?
5 comments
One part of me wants to stand up and clap for this awesome eye opener .. which declares nothing but heights of social media fatigue ..
ReplyDeletethe other side reminds me Facebook or twitter is not ultimate evil... like some say for the saas bahu serials ... its how we handle things and know where to draw lines .. if not this is what happens .. one fine day we realize how much precious time we wasted helping a company and a guy make billions out of our time . Not his fault neither ours . Mark is not the only one...
Even I deleted my account long back only to realize .. its time to re activate and use it wisely .. to use Mark' system of making money to make a little bit of money for myself .. already had my site on air and all i did started sharing them on FB and to my surprise .. I build a considerable number of readers this way ... now it gives me about 12% of my monthly readers and I dont mind spending an hour almost a day now !! :)
good article. But excess of anything becomes dangerous and boring. I have been using since 2009 too. But i havent got bored. I open once, see the messages and leave it. Most of them even though they have nothing to do they open it 10 times a day, because they have nothing to do in real life and hence go to the virtual work. with the help of facebook, I can connect to my old friends, and it gives me immense pleasure sharing with them my past experiences, time spent with them. and this happiness is priceless for me. But how long will I be finding them? I dont find it regularly , very occasionally i see in some of friends post they comment and get hold of them.
ReplyDeleteFb surely has some advantages but more disadvantages in the long run. For ex at my university people use it for our course work.
Nice article.
Quite interesting. The social medias are just killing time. For the interested readers, may be the following blog post will lend some more thoughts...
ReplyDeletehttp://aamjunta.wordpress.com/2012/09/09/being-social-or-active-in-social-media/
Hmm agree with you @mysay. @RAN IN JAN
ReplyDeletefacebook provides us a platform to utilize the various resources and allow us to be in touch with majority of pages ,forums and groups but as everything has some advantages and disadvantages same facebook have, its good if you use for some constructive purpose but for people like us who are in colleges and universities facebook is nothing but a distraction ,people have no future in hands instead of working for some part of our future ,we are wasting our time in just accessing all those information and talking on all those activities which are useless wish if there is a site which can limit the audience according to their work environment, but facebook is a site which is totally free to access and we know bad things attract youth more than the good one and its polluting our youths of a country.
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